Sensual Massage:
What Is It And Why You Should Get One

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In this article, we explore the topic of Sensual Massage including: 

  • What Sensual Massage Is
  • The History of Sensual Massage
  • Reasons to Get a Sensual Massage
  • How Sensual Massage Differs From Other Massage Practices
  • What To Expect In a Sensual Massage
  • The Best Places To Get A Sensual Massage
  • How To Pick a Sensual Massage Provider
  • How Much a Sensual Massage Costs
  • The Legality of Sensual Massage. 

By the end of this article, you will have the information you need to determine if  a Sensual Massage is right for you.

Not Your Traditional Massage

Most adults have had a massage at some point in their lifetime.  However, traditional massages leave many of us wishing for just a little bit more (or perhaps a lot more).  Most traditional massage spas have very strict guidelines and policies about what their masseuses can and cannot do.  Their guidelines cover many areas including draping policies, clothing policies and touching policies.  The business puts these policies in place to protect the business from any liability.  Traditional massage business offer a valuable service and nothing in this article should be construed as minimizing the value they offer.

However, a large population of clients exist who wish there weren’t so many rules, policies and guidelines.   If you fall into this population, then you have come to the right place to learn about Sensual Massage.

What Is A Sensual Massage?

Sensual Massage is interpreted as many different things (which we will cover in this article). In simple terms, Sensual Massage is traditional massage taken to another level with less rules governing the experience.

 During a Sensual Massage, there is a tighter bond established between the client and the Sensual Massage Provider.  The session incorporates all of the aspects of a traditional massage (including deep tissue massage).  However, the key difference is a Sensual Massage eliminates most (if not all) of the rules governing what areas of the body can be touched and massaged. 

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

Sensual Massage – An Art Form

You can think of Sensual Massage as just another form of art.  Many massage artists (providers) find themselves too restricted by the rules governing traditional massage.  It’s like telling an artist to only paint on part of a canvas but the rest is “untouchable”.  Sensual Massage opens up the entire canvas to the artist.  This creates an unlimited environment for unlimited expression of their talent.  Fortunately, this also creates an unlimited opportunity for the client to enjoy an amazing experience while appreciating the art.  While exploring Sensual Massage as a form of art is a fun exercise, let’s get back down to the basics. 

To succinctly define Sensual Massage, you could describe it in this way:

“Sensual Massage combines massage and touch (using hands and/or body) to create a full body experience of relaxation, arousal and stress relief.”

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

The History Of Sensual Massage?

Sensual Massage is not a new concept.  In fact, it has been around for thousands of years.  This type of massage was widespread in Eastern cultures, including China and India, as far back as 2,000 years ago.  In India, specific forms of sensual massage (tantric massage) include both a spiritual as well as physical aspect.  In the Western world, massage is used primarily for therapy or healing purposes.  Yet today modern individuals and couples are rediscovering the use of massage as part of their sensuality and sexuality.

Who Can Get A Sensual Massage?

Many people think of Sensual Massage as something mostly pursued by men.  However, there is an increasing trend of women and couples also getting Sensual Massages.  People are interested in Sensual Massage for many reasons (which we describe in further detail below).  However, the concept that Sensual Massage is just for men is an outdated concept.  At Charm BodyWorks, we have a significant number of women and couples who come see us on a regular basis.  Each of our clients pursue Sensual Massage for their own unique reasons.  This is why we create a custom experience for each of our clients based on their preferences, boundaries and fantasies.

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

Reasons To Get A Sensual Massage

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People pursue Sensual Massage for many reasons.  Below are just a few of the many reasons why a Sensual Massage might make sense for you:

Health Benefits

Sensual Massage has health benefits (in additional to the sensual benefits). It boosts blood flow all across the body and reduces the levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) in the body. Sensual Massage also increases oxytocin (a hormone involved with feelings of affection and bonding). In addition, regular massage leads to improved immune function and better general health overall.

Improved Productivity

Many business professionals work long hours, travel frequently or deal with continuous sources of stress in their daily activities.  Having a healthy outlet to reduce stress levels (such as a Sensual Massage) results in increased focus and productivity. 

Improved Performance

At Charm BodyWorks, we see many clients who have no confidence in their ability to perform for their partner.  Often this is simply a lack of Sexual Education on how to please their partner.  However, in other cases there is a clear need for Sexual Therapy to address specific mental, emotional or physical issues.  In this type of session you get great mentoring and guidance.  Yet you also get the opportunity to practice in a live session with one of our providers.

Improved Relations With Your Partner

Sensual Massage improves relations with your partner or spouse in many ways:

Mutual Trust

The ideal way to experience Sensual Massage is experiencing it together.  Sessions are held in the same or separate rooms (depending on your personal preferences and boundaries).  Allowing your partner to experience the benefits of a Sensual Massage brings a couple closer together.  Eliminating the traditional roles of jealousy and fear in relationships is a powerful aphrodisiac.  Showing mutual trust and respect for each other in this way takes your relationship to a whole new level.

Resolving Health or Functional Issues

We see many clients who come to us with real world health or functional issues.  These issues prevent them from enjoying normal sexual relations with their partner.  In many cases, the couple is completely committed to each other but recognize the functional limits of their situation.   They don’t want their partner limited in their ability to enjoy sensual activities.  In one situation, the wife had contracted Multiple Sclerosis.  Her disease progressed to the point where it was extremely difficult for her to please her husband.  As a result, she sent him to us to help him enjoy certain aspects of his sexuality.  Her trust in him and her desire to see him enjoy all aspects of his life created an even stronger bond between them.

Sexual Imbalance

Perhaps you and your partner are not “on the same page” when it comes to sexual activity.  We have many clients in this situation.  They are committed to their partner and have no intention of ever leaving them.  However, a clear imbalance exists in the sexual drive within the relationship.  In every relationship there is one partner with a stronger sex drive than the other partner.  Consequently, selecting a professional and discreet Sensual Massage Provider creates a solution. When one partner receives a regular Sensual Massage it actually reduces the amount of stress and frustration in the relationship.  This opens the door for future growth and intimacy in the relationship.

Note:  Charm BodyWorks offers several mentoring services including Sex Therapy and Sex Education services.  To learn more about our Sex Therapy and Sex Education Services please click here.

How Does Sensual Massage Differ From Other Massage Practices?

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As mentioned earlier in this article, Sensual Massage incorporates many traditional massage practices.  However, Sensual Massage takes it to the next level by incorporating most of the body’s erogenous zones.  This is designed to relax and then arouse the client (even to the point of orgasm).  It is not uncommon for clients to climax multiple times during a session.

Sensual Massage is actually a broad term often referred to using other names such as:

  • Body Rub Massage
  • Full Body Massage
  • Nuru Massage
  • Tantric (or Tantra) Massage
  • FBSM (Full Body Sensual Massage)
  • Erotic Massage
  • Nude Massage
  • Adult Massage
  • Real Body Massage
  • Happy Ending Massage
  • Thai Massage. 

Most of these terms refer to the same thing (with the exception of Nuru Massage and Tantric Massage).

Nuru Massage

Nuru Massage is a modified version of Sensual Massage.  It emphasizes body to body contact as the primary form of contact.  In a Nuru Massage both the client and provider are typically nude.  A very slippery oil (called Nuru Oil) is used on both bodies to create relaxing and arousing massage strokes.

Tantric Massage

Tantric Massage (also known as Tantra Massage) is also a variation of Sensual Massage.  The term Tantric or Tantra Massage is often a misunderstood or misused term.  Some people think that Tantric Massage is the same thing as a basic Sensual Massage.  While other people think of Tantric Massage as more of a spiritual awareness and healing practice which incorporates massage.  As a result, the actual practice or implementation of Tantric Massage often varies from one provider to another.

What To Expect In A Sensual Massage?

It is very important that you fully understand what to expect in your Sensual Massage session.  This is one of those situations where people typically don’t like surprises.  At Charm BodyWorks, we sit down with our clients prior to the session.  We make sure they have a clear understanding of what to expect during the session.  Below are a few items you should discuss with your Sensual Massage Provider prior to the session:

Draping

Draping is the covering (or partial covering) of the client with a sheet, blanket or towel.  Traditional massage practices incorporate strict rules regarding draping.  In a Sensual Massage session these rules are typically more relaxed (or non-existent).  It is most common for the client to be completely naked and uncovered during the session. This is due to the fact that all parts of the body are typically incorporated into a Sensual Massage.  However, this is strictly based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Full View

Full View typically means that the provider (and client) are completely naked during the session.  This is derived from the fact you have a “Full View” of the provider’s body.  Of course, this is based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Mutual Touch

Mutual Touch means that both the client and provider have the freedom to touch each other during the session.  Once again this is based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Penetration

It is important to discuss with your provider whether any form of penetration will be included in the session.  Penetration is typically incorporated using either fingers, devices (toys) or an actual penis.  Many providers charge more if penetration is included in the session.  But others incorporate it into the session for free or don’t offer it at all.  This is why it is important to discuss with your provider before the session.

Protection

A Sensual Massage session may incorporate a variety of sensual acts involving manual or oral stimulation and penetration.  It is possible that STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) could be transmitted during the session. Therefore, it is critical that you and the provider agree on any forms of protection to be used during the session.  It is also helpful if you and the provider have developed some level of trust prior to the session.

Fetishes / Desires

It is not uncommon for clients to have fetishes or desires they would like to explore during the session.  If so, be sure and discuss this with your provider prior to the session.  Providers typically don’t like surprises either.  Therefore, make sure they are aware of anything unusual you would like to experience during the session.

Tools / Products

You should also discuss with your provider any tools or products to be used during the session.  This includes what type of massage oils used or any specifics “tools of the trade”.  In addition, make your provider aware if you have any allergies or sensitivities to certain types of products or tools.

What Are The Best Places To Get A Sensual Massage?

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The types of places where Sensual Massage is offered varies significantly from region to region.  This is driven primarily by local regulations, customs and culture.  However, Sensual Massage providers typically fall into one of the following categories:

Walk-In Massage Parlors

Walk-In Massage Parlors are establishments where you walk in without an appointment.  They have massage providers (normally younger female providers) on site to service walk-in clients. Many Asian and Thai massage parlors work in this manner.  Unfortunately, walk-in massage parlors are often located in less than desirable parts of town.  As a result, be sure and scope out the area before you choose to visit these establishments. 

In most cases, the providers remain clothed and provide traditional massage treatments along with a “happy ending”.  Walk-in massage parlors are less expensive than other Sensual Massage alternatives.  However, they typically offer only basic services.  If you are looking for more mature providers, better communication or a more discreet and professional environment, then you should consider one of the options below.

Independent Providers

There is a plethora of independent body rub providers that advertise their services online.  They traditionally advertised their services on sites like Craigs List and BackPage.  However, most of these sites are shut down now.  This is due to the recent FOSTA Legislation passed by Congress and the Trump Administration.  As a result, it is difficult to find some of these providers online.  However, there are still plenty of body rub sites that advertise these types of services. 

While some of these specialists provide a good Sensual Massage experience, they often lack the professionalism upper scale clients look for.  In addition, many of these providers offer their services out of their own apartment or home.  This may not be the optimal environment you were expecting.  As a result, their services are normally more moderately priced. This may or may not be a good fit for you depending on what you are looking for.

Sensual Massage Suites

First of all, Sensual Massage Suites are upper scale private suites where Body Rub services are provided by appointment only.  These are typically dedicated, well-appointed suites that exist only for the purposes of providing massage services.  Furthermore, this is normally a discreet and very professional environment. As a result, upper-scale clientele tend to prefer this type of service. 

There are multiple Sensual Massage Providers available to provide services at these locations.  The providers in these suites are more mature, educated, well-traveled and may have a regular professional career.   This not only provides more engaging conversation but also more intimacy during the sessions.  However, the rates at a Sensual Massage Suite are typically higher than the previous options listed. 

Note:  Charm BodyWorks operates a Sensual Massage Suite in Dallas, Texas and is considered one of the premier providers in the country.  To learn more about Charm BodyWorks please click here.

Out-Call Providers

Many clients prefer Sensual Massage providers who can come to their hotel room or residence..  There are certainly pros and cons to this approach.  Having a provider show up to your hotel or residence may be less discreet (especially if you have business colleagues staying in the same hotel or nosy neighbors).  It is also not always ideal for the Provider because it involves a higher-level of risk.  In addition, the logistical challenges of bringing equipment (massage table) and tools/supplies to the location may present some challenges.  As a result, there is normally an additional out-call fee assessed (on top of the Provider’s normal rates) for these types of services. 

Note:  Charm BodyWorks provides Out-Call Services in Dallas, Texas and is considered one of the premier providers in the country.  To learn more about Charm BodyWorks please click here.

How To Pick A Sensual Massage Provider?

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The best way to pick a Sensual Massage Provider is to use the following process:

  1. Pick what type of provider (and associated price point) you prefer from the four options listed above.
  2. Visit the websites in that category to determine which of their Providers are most appealing to you.  This is typically based on their appearance, figure, description and services offered.
  3. Communicate with them (via text, email or phone) to discuss your specific expectations for the session.  Also, determine specifically what they do and do not offer as part of their sessions.
  4. Be sure and discuss specific pricing for your session.  This should be based on duration of the session and specific services offered.  If necessary, request a one-on-one consultation with them before scheduling the session.  This can typically be done over the phone or in person. 

How Much Does A Sensual Massage Cost?

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The price you will pay is based on the following factors:

  1. The type of provider
  2. Services offered
  3. Duration of session
  4. Location of session

You can find a wide range of price points depending on the type of establishment you choose to visit, the quality of the provider and what services you are expecting.  At Charm BodyWorks, we have tested several different pricing methods and the one we have found works the best for our clients is a flat hourly rate.  You are simply paying for the provider’s time.

This allows our clients to discuss the specifics of what services they would like to have included in their session (most of which are included at this flat hourly rate).  This simplifies things for our clients and avoids confusion over pricing for different services.

There are many places where you can find cheaper rates than our standard flat fee.  However, what you won’t find is a nicer facility or higher quality providers.  We cater to a specific clientele and these clients find our pricing to be quite reasonable for the quality of service we provide.  If you are looking for cheaper rates, you might want to try a Walk-In Massage Parlor or an Independent Provider who works out of their home.

Please Note:  At Charm BodyWorks, we only charge for our Provider’s time.  Any activities that occur during the massage are agreed to by consenting adulits.

Is A Sensual Massage Legal?

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We are not attorneys or a judicial or law enforcement agency.  Therefore, we cannot provide any legal advice when it comes to Sensual Massage.  The legality of Sensual Massage varies from region to region based on local regulations, cultures and customs.  There are some countries or cities where Sensual Massage is clearly legal.  These regions include Australia / New Zealand and Amsterdam.  If you are not in one of these regions it is possible that Sensual Massage may be considered illegal (or at least in the gray zone of the law). As a result, you should carefully consider these factors when considering a Sensual Massage.

Human Trafficking

In the United States, the primary focus is on human trafficking.  As a result, law enforcement resources are mostly dedicated to this pursuit.  This would include agencies or operators who are utilizing under-age or illegally imported providers.  In addition, this would also include any place where providers are being forced to provide services against their will.  You should consider these factors when choosing the provider you would want to do business with. 

Our View

At Charm BodyWorks,  our clients have carefully considered these risks.  That is one of the many reasons they have chosen to do business with us.  We are very discreet, highly professional and only offer mature, independent providers.  Our providers have chosen of their own free will to offer these types of services.  The services we offer provide a valuable service that has enhanced and sometimes even changed the life of our clients.  We are very proud of the services we provide and we hope you will consider a session with us for you and/or your partner.  

Please Note:  At Charm BodyWorks, we only charge for our Provider’s time.  Any activities that occur during the massage are agreed to by consenting adulits.

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Sensual Massage: What Is It And Why You Should Get One

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In this article, we explore the topic of Sensual Massage including: 

  • What Sensual Massage Is
  • The History of Sensual Massage
  • Reasons to Get a Sensual Massage
  • How Sensual Massage Differs From Other Massage Practices
  • What To Expect In a Sensual Massage
  • The Best Places To Get A Sensual Massage
  • How To Pick a Sensual Massage Provider
  • How Much a Sensual Massage Costs
  • The Legality of Sensual Massage. 

By the end of this article, you will have the information you need
to determine if a Sensual Massage is right for you.

Not Your Traditional Massage

Most adults have had a massage at some point in their lifetime.  However, traditional massages leave many of us wishing for just a little bit more (or perhaps a lot more).  Most traditional massage spas have very strict guidelines and policies about what their masseuses can and cannot do.  Their guidelines cover many areas including draping policies, clothing policies and touching policies.  The business puts these policies in place to protect the business from any liability.  Traditional massage business offer a valuable service and nothing in this article should be construed as minimizing the value they offer.

However, a large population of clients exist who wish there weren’t so many rules, policies and guidelines.   If you fall into this population, then you have come to the right place to learn about Sensual Massage.

What Is A Sensual Massage?

Sensual Massage is interpreted as many different things (which we will cover in this article). In simple terms, Sensual Massage is traditional massage taken to another level with less rules governing the experience.

 During a Sensual Massage, there is a tighter bond established between the client and the Sensual Massage Provider.  The session incorporates all of the aspects of a traditional massage (including deep tissue massage).  However, the key difference is a Sensual Massage eliminates most (if not all) of the rules governing what areas of the body can be touched and massaged. 

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

Sensual Massage – An Art Form

You can think of Sensual Massage as just another form of art.  Many massage artists (providers) find themselves too restricted by the rules governing traditional massage.  It’s like telling an artist to only paint on part of a canvas but the rest is “untouchable”.  Sensual Massage opens up the entire canvas to the artist.  This creates an unlimited environment for unlimited expression of their talent.  Fortunately, this also creates an unlimited opportunity for the client to enjoy an amazing experience while appreciating the art.  While exploring Sensual Massage as a form of art is a fun exercise, let’s get back down to the basics. 

To succinctly define Sensual Massage, you could describe it in this way:

Sensual Massage combines massage and touch (using hands and/or body) to create a full body experience of relaxation, arousal and stress relief.”

The History Of Sensual Massage?

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

Sensual Massage is not a new concept.  In fact, it has been around for thousands of years.  This type of massage was widespread in Eastern cultures, including China and India, as far back as 2,000 years ago.  In India, specific forms of Sensual Massage (tantric massage) include both a spiritual as well as physical aspect.  In the Western world, massage is used primarily for therapy or healing purposes.  Yet today modern individuals and couples are rediscovering the use of massage as part of their sensuality and sexuality.

Who Can Get A Sensual Massage?

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

Many people think of Sensual Massage as something mostly pursued by men.  However, there is an increasing trend of women and couples also getting Sensual Massages.  People are interested in Sensual Massage for many reasons (which we describe in further detail below).  However, the concept that Sensual Massage is just for men is an outdated concept.  At Charm BodyWorks, we have a significant number of women and couples who come see us on a regular basis.  Each of our clients pursue Sensual Massage for their own unique reasons.  This is why we create a custom experience for each of our clients based on their preferences, boundaries and fantasies.

Reasons To Get A Sensual Massage

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

People pursue Sensual Massage for many reasons.  Below are just a few of the many reasons why a Sensual Massage might make sense for you:

Health Benefits

Sensual Massage has health benefits (in additional to the sensual benefits). It boosts blood flow all across the body and reduces the levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) in the body. Sensual Massage also increases oxytocin (a hormone involved with feelings of affection and bonding). In addition, regular massage leads to improved immune function and better general health overall.

Improved Productivity

Many business professionals work long hours, travel frequently or deal with continuous sources of stress in their daily activities.  Having a healthy outlet to reduce stress levels (such as a Sensual Massage) results in increased focus and productivity. 

Improved Performance

At Charm BodyWorks, we see many clients who have no confidence in their ability to perform for their partner.  Often this is simply a lack of Sexual Education on how to please their partner.  However, in other cases there is a clear need for Sexual Therapy to address specific mental, emotional or physical issues.  In this type of session you get great mentoring and guidance.  Yet you also get the opportunity to practice in a live session with one of our providers.

Improved Relations With Your Partner

Sensual Massage improves relations with your partner or spouse in many ways:

Mutual Trust

The ideal way to experience Sensual Massage is experiencing it together.  Sessions are held in the same or separate rooms (depending on your personal preferences and boundaries).  Allowing your partner to experience the benefits of a Sensual Massage brings a couple closer together.  Eliminating the traditional roles of jealousy and fear in relationships is a powerful aphrodisiac.  Showing mutual trust and respect for each other in this way takes your relationship to a whole new level.

Resolving Health or Functional Issues

We see many clients who come to us with real world health or functional issues.  These issues prevent them from enjoying normal sexual relations with their partner.  In many cases, the couple is completely committed to each other but recognize the functional limits of their situation.   They don’t want their partner limited in their ability to enjoy sensual activities.  In one situation, the wife had contracted Multiple Sclerosis.  Her disease progressed to the point where it was extremely difficult for her to please her husband.  As a result, she sent him to us to help him enjoy certain aspects of his sexuality.  Her trust in him and her desire to see him enjoy all aspects of his life created an even stronger bond between them.

Sexual Imbalance

Perhaps you and your partner are not “on the same page” when it comes to sexual activity.  We have many clients in this situation.  They are committed to their partner and have no intention of ever leaving them.  However, a clear imbalance exists in the sexual drive within the relationship.  In every relationship there is one partner with a stronger sex drive than the other partner.  Consequently, selecting a professional and discreet Sensual Massage Provider provides a solution. When one partner receives a regular Sensual Massage it actually reduces the amount of stress and frustration in the relationship.  This opens the door for future growth and intimacy in the relationship.

Note:  Charm BodyWorks offers several mentoring services including Sex Therapy and Sex Education services.  To learn more about our Sex Therapy and Sex Education Services please click here.

How Does Sensual Massage Differ From Other Massage Practices?

Body Rub Massage - Charm BodyWorks

As mentioned earlier in this article, Sensual Massage incorporates many traditional massage practices.  However, SensualMassage takes it to the next level by incorporating most of the body’s erogenous zones.  This is designed to relax and then arouse the client (even to the point of orgasm).  It is not uncommon for clients to climax multiple times during a session.

Sensual Massage is actually a broad term often referred to using other names such as:

  • Body Rub Massage
  • Full Body Massage
  • Nuru Massage
  • Tantric (or Tantra) Massage
  • FBSM (Full Body Sensual Massage)
  • Erotic Massage
  • Nude Massage
  • Adult Massage
  • Real Body Massage
  • Happy Ending Massage
  • Thai Massage. 

Most of these terms refer to the same thing (with the exception of Nuru Massage and Tantric Massage).

Nuru Massage

Nuru Massage is a modified version of Body Rub Massage Massage.  It emphasizes body to body contact as the primary form of contact.  In a Nuru Massage both the client and provider are typically nude.  A very slippery oil (called Nuru Oil) is used on both bodies to create relaxing and arousing massage strokes.

Tantric Massage

Tantric Massage (also known as Tantra Massage) is also a variation of Body Rub Massage Massage.  The term Tantric or Tantra Massage is often a misunderstood or misused term.  Some people think that Tantric Massage is the same thing as a basic Body Rub Massage Massage.  While other people think of Tantric Massage as more of a spiritual awareness and healing practice which incorporates massage.  As a result, the actual practice or implementation of Tantric Massage often varies from one provider to another.

What To Expect In A Sensual Massage?

It is very important that you fully understand what to expect in your Sensual Massage session.  This is one of those situations where people typically don’t like surprises.  At Charm BodyWorks, we sit down with our clients prior to the session.  We make sure they have a clear understanding of what to expect during the session.  Below are a few items you should discuss with your Sensual Massage Provider prior to the session:

Draping

Draping is the covering (or partial covering) of the client with a sheet, blanket or towel.  Traditional massage practices incorporate strict rules regarding draping.  In a Sensual Massage session these rules are typically more relaxed (or non-existent).  It is most common for the client to be completely naked and uncovered during the session. This is due to the fact that all parts of the body are typically incorporated into a Sensual Massage.  However, this is strictly based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Full View

Full View typically means that the provider (and client) are completely naked during the session.  This is derived from the fact you have a “Full View” of the provider’s body.  Of course, this is based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Mutual Touch

Mutual Touch means that both the client and provider have the freedom to touch each other during the session.  Once again this is based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Penetration

It is important to discuss with your provider whether any form of penetration will be included in the session.  Penetration is typically incorporated using either fingers, devices (toys) or an actual penis.  Many providers charge more if penetration is included in the session.  But others incorporate it into the session for free or don’t offer it at all.  This is why it is important to discuss with your provider before the session.

Protection

A Sensual Massage session may incorporate a variety of sensual acts involving manual or oral stimulation and penetration.  It is possible that STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) could be transmitted during the session. Therefore, it is critical that you and the provider agree on any forms of protection to be used during the session.  It is also helpful if you and the provider have developed some level of trust prior to the session.

Fetishes / Desires

It is not uncommon for clients to have fetishes or desires they would like to explore during the session.  If so, be sure and discuss this with your provider prior to the session.  Providers typically don’t like surprises either.  Therefore, make sure they are aware of anything unusual you would like to experience during the session.

Tools / Products

You should also discuss with your provider any tools or products to be used during the session.  This includes what type of massage oils used or any specifics “tools of the trade”.  In addition, make your provider aware if you have any allergies or sensitivities to certain types of products or tools.

What Are The Best Places To Get A Sensual Massage?

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The types of places where Sensual Massage is offered varies significantly from region to region.  This is driven primarily by local regulations, customs and culture.  However, Sensual Massage providers typically fall into one of the following categories:

Walk-In Massage Parlors

Walk-In Massage Parlors are establishments where you walk in without an appointment.  They have massage providers (normally younger female providers) on site to service walk-in clients. Many Asian and Thai massage parlors work in this manner.  Unfortunately, walk-in massage parlors are often located in less than desirable parts of town.  As a result, be sure and scope out the area before you choose to visit these establishments. 

In most cases, the providers remain clothed and provide traditional massage treatments along with a “happy ending”.  Walk-in massage parlors are less expensive than other Sensual Massage alternatives.  However, they typically offer only basic services.  If you are looking for more mature providers, better communication or a more discreet and professional environment, then you should consider one of the options below.

Independent Providers

There is a plethora of independent body rub providers that advertise their services online.  They traditionally advertised their services on sites like Craigs List and BackPage.  However, most of these sites are shut down now.  This is due to the recent FOSTA Legislation passed by Congress and the Trump Administration.  As a result, it is difficult to find some of these providers online.  However, there are still plenty of body rub sites that advertise these types of services. 

While some of these specialists provide a good body rub experience, they often lack the professionalism upper scale clients look for.  In addition, many of these providers offer their services out of their own apartment or home.  This may not be the optimal environment you were expecting.  As a result, their services are normally more moderately priced. This may or may not be a good fit for you depending on what you are looking for.

Sensual Massage Suites

First of all, Sensual Massage Suites are upper scale private suites where Body Rub services are provided by appointment only.  These are typically dedicated, well-appointed suites that exist only for the purposes of providing massage services.  Furthermore, this is normally a discreet and very professional environment. As a result, upper-scale clientele tend to prefer this type of service. 

There are multiple Sensual Massage Providers available to provide services at these locations.  The providers in these suites are more mature, educated, well-traveled and may have a regular professional career.   This not only provides more engaging conversation but also more intimacy during the sessions.  However, the rates at a Sensual Massage Suite are typically higher than the previous options listed. 

Note:  Charm BodyWorks operates a Sensual Massage Suite in Dallas, Texas and is considered one of the premier providers in the country.  To learn more about Charm BodyWorks please click here.

Out-Call Providers

Many clients prefer Sensual Massage providers who can come to their hotel room or residence..  There are certainly pros and cons to this approach.  Having a provider show up to your hotel or residence may be less discreet (especially if you have business colleagues staying in the same hotel or nosy neighbors).  It is also not always ideal for the Provider because it involves a higher-level of risk.  In addition, the logistical challenges of bringing equipment (massage table) and tools/supplies to the location may present some challenges.  As a result, there is normally an additional out-call fee assessed (on top of the Provider’s normal rates) for these types of services. 

Note:  Charm BodyWorks provides Out-Call Services in Dallas, Texas and is considered one of the premier providers in the country.  To learn more about Charm BodyWorks please click here.

How To Pick A Sensual Massage Provider?

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The best way to pick a Sensual Massage Provider is to use the following process:

  1. Pick what type of provider (and associated price point) you prefer from the four options listed above.
  2. Visit the websites in that category to determine which of their Providers are most appealing to you.  This is typically based on their appearance, figure, description and services offered.
  3. Communicate with them (via text, email or phone) to discuss your specific expectations for the session.  Also, determine specifically what they do and do not offer as part of their sessions.
  4. Be sure and discuss specific pricing for your session.  This should be based on duration of the session and specific services offered.  If necessary, request a one-on-one consultation with them before scheduling the session.  This can typically be done over the phone or in person. 

How Much Does A Sensual Massage Cost?

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The price you will pay is based on the following factors:

  1. The type of provider
  2. Services offered
  3. Duration of session
  4. Location of session

You can find a wide range of price points depending on the type of establishment you choose to visit, the quality of the provider and what services you are expecting.  At Charm BodyWorks, we have tested several different pricing methods and the one we have found works the best for our clients is a flat hourly rate.  You are simply paying for the provider’s time.

This allows our clients to discuss the specifics of what services they would like to have included in their session (most of which are included at this flat hourly rate).  This simplifies things for our clients and avoids confusion over pricing for different services.

There are many places where you can find cheaper rates than our standard flat fee.  However, what you won’t find is a nicer facility or higher quality providers.  We cater to a specific clientele and these clients find our pricing to be quite reasonable for the quality of service we provide.  If you are looking for cheaper rates, you might want to try a Walk-In Massage Parlor or an Independent Provider who works out of their home.

Please Note:  At Charm BodyWorks, we only charge for our Provider’s time.  Any activities that occur during the massage are agreed to by consenting adulits.

Is A Sensual Massage Legal?

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We are not attorneys or a judicial or law enforcement agency.  Therefore, we cannot provide any legal advice when it comes to Sensual Massage.  The legality of Sensual Massage varies from region to region based on local regulations, cultures and customs.  There are some countries or cities where Sensual Massage is clearly legal.  These regions include Australia / New Zealand and Amsterdam.  If you are not in one of these regions it is possible that Sensual Massage may be considered illegal (or at least in the gray zone of the law). As a result, you should carefully consider these factors when considering a Sensual Massage.

Human Trafficking

In the United States, the primary focus is on human trafficking.  As a result, law enforcement resources are mostly dedicated to this pursuit.  This would include agencies or operators who are utilizing under-age or illegally imported providers.  In addition, this would also include any place where providers are being forced to provide services against their will.  You should consider these factors when choosing the provider you would want to do business with. 

Our View

At Charm BodyWorks,  our clients have carefully considered these risks.  That is one of the many reasons they have chosen to do business with us.  We are very discreet, highly professional and only offer mature, independent providers.  Our providers have chosen of their own free will to offer these types of services.  The services we offer provide a valuable service that has enhanced and sometimes even changed the life of our clients.  We are very proud of the services we provide and we hope you will consider a session with us for you and/or your partner.  

Please Note:  At Charm BodyWorks, we only charge for our Provider’s time.  Any activities that occur during the massage are agreed to by consenting adulits.

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Sensual Massage:
What Is It And
Why You Should Get One

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In this article, we explore the topic of
Sensual Massage including: 

  • What Sensual Massage Is
  • The History of Sensual Massage
  • Reasons to Get a Sensual Massage
  • How Sensual Massage Differs From Other Massage Practices
  • What To Expect In a Sensual Massage
  • The Best Places To Get A Sensual Massage
  • How To Pick a Sensual Massage Provider
  • How Much a Sensual Massage Costs
  • The Legality of Sensual Massage. 

By the end of this article, you will have the information you need to determine if a Sensual Massage is right for you.

Not Your Traditional Massage

Most adults have had a massage at some point in their lifetime.  However, traditional massages leave many of us wishing for just a little bit more (or perhaps a lot more).  Most traditional massage spas have very strict guidelines and policies about what their masseuses can and cannot do.  Their guidelines cover many areas including draping policies, clothing policies and touching policies.  The business puts these policies in place to protect the business from any liability.  Traditional massage business offer a valuable service and nothing in this article should be construed as minimizing the value they offer.

However, a large population of clients exist who wish there weren’t so many rules, policies and guidelines.   If you fall into this population, then you have come to the right place to learn about Sensual Massage.

What Is A Sensual Massage?

Sensual Massage is interpreted as many different things (which we will cover in this article). In simple terms, Sensual Massage is traditional massage taken to another level with less rules governing the experience.

 During a Sensual Massage, there is a tighter bond established between the client and the Sensual Massage Provider.  The session incorporates all of the aspects of a traditional massage (including deep tissue massage).  However, the key difference is a Sensual Massage eliminates most (if not all) of the rules governing what areas of the body can be touched and massaged. 

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Sensual Massage – An Art Form

You can think of Sensual Massage as just another form of art.  Many massage artists (providers) find themselves too restricted by the rules governing traditional massage.  It’s like telling an artist to only paint on part of a canvas but the rest is “untouchable”.  Sensual Massage opens up the entire canvas to the artist.  This creates an unlimited environment for unlimited expression of their talent.  Fortunately, this also creates an unlimited opportunity for the client to enjoy an amazing experience while appreciating the art.  While exploring Sensual Massage as a form of art is a fun exercise, let’s get back down to the basics. 

To succinctly define Sensual Massage, you could describe it in this way:

Sensual Massage combines massage and touch (using hands and/or body) to create a full body experience of relaxation, arousal and stress relief.”

The History Of Sensual Massage?

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Sensual Massage is not a new concept.  In fact, it has been around for thousands of years.  This type of massage was widespread in Eastern cultures, including China and India, as far back as 2,000 years ago.  In India, specific forms of Sensual Massage (tantric massage) include both a spiritual as well as physical aspect.  In the Western world, massage is used primarily for therapy or healing purposes.  Yet today modern individuals and couples are rediscovering the use of massage as part of their sensuality and sexuality.

Who Can Get A Sensual Massage?

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Many people think of Sensual Massage as something mostly pursued by men.  However, there is an increasing trend of women and couples also getting Sensual Massages.  People are interested in Sensual Massage for many reasons (which we describe in further detail below).  However, the concept that Sensual Massage is just for men is an outdated concept.  At Charm BodyWorks, we have a significant number of women and couples who come see us on a regular basis.  Each of our clients pursue Sensual Massage for their own unique reasons.  This is why we create a custom experience for each of our clients based on their preferences, boundaries and fantasies.

Reasons To Get A
Sensual Massage

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People pursue Sensual Massage for many reasons.  Below are just a few of the many reasons why a Sensual Massage might make sense for you:

Health Benefits

Sensual Massage has health benefits (in additional to the sensual benefits). It boosts blood flow all across the body and reduces the levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) in the body. Sensual Massage also increases oxytocin (a hormone involved with feelings of affection and bonding). In addition, regular massage leads to improved immune function and better general health overall.

Improved Productivity

Many business professionals work long hours, travel frequently or deal with continuous sources of stress in their daily activities.  Having a healthy outlet to reduce stress levels (such as a Sensual Massage) results in increased focus and productivity. 

Improved Performance

At Charm BodyWorks, we see many clients who have no confidence in their ability to perform for their partner.  Often this is simply a lack of Sexual Education on how to please their partner.  However, in other cases there is a clear need for Sexual Therapy to address specific mental, emotional or physical issues.  In this type of session you get great mentoring and guidance.  Yet you also get the opportunity to practice in a live session with one of our providers.

Improved Relations With Your Partner

Sensual Massage improves relations with your partner or spouse in many ways:

Mutual Trust

The ideal way to experience Sensual Massage is experiencing it together.  Sessions are held in the same or separate rooms (depending on your personal preferences and boundaries).  Allowing your partner to experience the benefits of a Sensual Massage brings a couple closer together.  Eliminating the traditional roles of jealousy and fear in relationships is a powerful aphrodisiac.  Showing mutual trust and respect for each other in this way takes your relationship to a whole new level.

Resolving Health or Functional Issues

We see many clients who come to us with real world health or functional issues.  These issues prevent them from enjoying normal sexual relations with their partner.  In many cases, the couple is completely committed to each other but recognize the functional limits of their situation.   They don’t want their partner limited in their ability to enjoy sensual activities.  In one situation, the wife had contracted Multiple Sclerosis.  Her disease progressed to the point where it was extremely difficult for her to please her husband.  As a result, she sent him to us to help him enjoy certain aspects of his sexuality.  Her trust in him and her desire to see him enjoy all aspects of his life created an even stronger bond between them.

Sexual Imbalance

Perhaps you and your partner are not “on the same page” when it comes to sexual activity.  We have many clients in this situation.  They are committed to their partner and have no intention of ever leaving them.  However, a clear imbalance exists in the sexual drive within the relationship.  In every relationship there is one partner with a stronger sex drive than the other partner.  Consequently, selecting a professional and discreet Sensual Massage Provider provides a solution. When one partner receives a regular Sensual Massage it actually reduces the amount of stress and frustration in the relationship.  This opens the door for future growth and intimacy in the relationship.

Note:  Charm BodyWorks offers several mentoring services including Sex Therapy and Sex Education services.  To learn more about our Sex Therapy and Sex Education Services please click here.

How Does Sensual Massage Differ From Other Massage Practices?

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As mentioned earlier in this article, Sensual Massage incorporates many traditional massage practices.  However, Sensual Massage takes it to the next level by incorporating most of the body’s erogenous zones.  This is designed to relax and then arouse the client (even to the point of orgasm).  It is not uncommon for clients to climax multiple times during a session.

Sensual Massage is actually a broad term often referred to using other names such as:

  • Body Rub Massage
  • Full Body Massage
  • Nuru Massage
  • Tantric (or Tantra) Massage
  • FBSM (Full Body Sensual Massage)
  • Erotic Massage
  • Nude Massage
  • Adult Massage
  • Real Body Massage
  • Happy Ending Massage
  • Thai Massage. 

Most of these terms refer to the same thing (with the exception of Nuru Massage and Tantric Massage).

Nuru Massage

Nuru Massage is a modified version of Sensual Massage.  It emphasizes body to body contact as the primary form of contact.  In a Nuru Massage both the client and provider are typically nude.  A very slippery oil (called Nuru Oil) is used on both bodies to create relaxing and arousing massage strokes.

Tantric Massage

Tantric Massage (also known as Tantra Massage) is also a variation of Sensual Massage.  The term Tantric or Tantra Massage is often a misunderstood or misused term.  Some people think that Tantric Massage is the same thing as a basic Sensual Massage.  While other people think of Tantric Massage as more of a spiritual awareness and healing practice which incorporates massage.  As a result, the actual practice or implementation of Tantric Massage often varies from one provider to another.

What To Expect In A Sensual Massage?

It is very important that you fully understand what to expect in your Sensual Massage session.  This is one of those situations where people typically don’t like surprises.  At Charm BodyWorks, we sit down with our clients prior to the session.  We make sure they have a clear understanding of what to expect during the session.  Below are a few items you should discuss with your Sensual Massage Provider prior to the session:

Draping

Draping is the covering (or partial covering) of the client with a sheet, blanket or towel.  Traditional massage practices incorporate strict rules regarding draping.  In a Sensual Massage session these rules are typically more relaxed (or non-existent).  It is most common for the client to be completely naked and uncovered during the session. This is due to the fact that all parts of the body are typically incorporated into a Sensual Massage.  However, this is strictly based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Full View

Full View typically means that the provider (and client) are completely naked during the session.  This is derived from the fact you have a “Full View” of the provider’s body.  Of course, this is based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Mutual Touch

Mutual Touch means that both the client and provider have the freedom to touch each other during the session.  Once again this is based on the client’s preferences and boundaries.

Penetration

It is important to discuss with your provider whether any form of penetration will be included in the session.  Penetration is typically incorporated using either fingers, devices (toys) or an actual penis.  Many providers charge more if penetration is included in the session.  But others incorporate it into the session for free or don’t offer it at all.  This is why it is important to discuss with your provider before the session.

Protection

A Sensual Massage session may incorporate a variety of sensual acts involving manual or oral stimulation and penetration.  It is possible that STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) could be transmitted during the session. Therefore, it is critical that you and the provider agree on any forms of protection to be used during the session.  It is also helpful if you and the provider have developed some level of trust prior to the session.

Fetishes / Desires

It is not uncommon for clients to have fetishes or desires they would like to explore during the session.  If so, be sure and discuss this with your provider prior to the session.  Providers typically don’t like surprises either.  Therefore, make sure they are aware of anything unusual you would like to experience during the session.

Tools / Products

You should also discuss with your provider any tools or products to be used during the session.  This includes what type of massage oils used or any specifics “tools of the trade”.  In addition, make your provider aware if you have any allergies or sensitivities to certain types of products or tools.

What Are The Best Places To Get A Sensual Massage?

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The types of places where Sensual Massage is offered varies significantly from region to region.  This is driven primarily by local regulations, customs and culture.  However, Sensual Massage providers typically fall into one of the following categories:

Walk-In Massage Parlors

Walk-In Massage Parlors are establishments where you walk in without an appointment.  They have massage providers (normally younger female providers) on site to service walk-in clients. Many Asian and Thai massage parlors work in this manner.  Unfortunately, walk-in massage parlors are often located in less than desirable parts of town.  As a result, be sure and scope out the area before you choose to visit these establishments. 

In most cases, the providers remain clothed and provide traditional massage treatments along with a “happy ending”.  Walk-in massage parlors are less expensive than other Sensual Massage alternatives.  However, they typically offer only basic services.  If you are looking for more mature providers, better communication or a more discreet and professional environment, then you should consider one of the options below.

Independent Providers

There is a plethora of independent body rub providers that advertise their services online.  They traditionally advertised their services on sites like Craigs List and BackPage.  However, most of these sites are shut down now.  This is due to the recent FOSTA Legislation passed by Congress and the Trump Administration.  As a result, it is difficult to find some of these providers online.  However, there are still plenty of body rub sites that advertise these types of services. 

While some of these specialists provide a good sensual massage experience, they often lack the professionalism upper scale clients look for.  In addition, many of these providers offer their services out of their own apartment or home.  This may not be the optimal environment you were expecting.  As a result, their services are normally more moderately priced. This may or may not be a good fit for you depending on what you are looking for.

Sensual Massage Suites

First of all, Sensual Massage Suites are upper scale private suites where Body Rub services are provided by appointment only.  These are typically dedicated, well-appointed suites that exist only for the purposes of providing massage services.  Furthermore, this is normally a discreet and very professional environment. As a result, upper-scale clientele tend to prefer this type of service. 

There are multiple Sensual Massage Providers available to provide services at these locations.  The providers in these suites are more mature, educated, well-traveled and may have a regular professional career.   This not only provides more engaging conversation but also more intimacy during the sessions.  However, the rates at a Sensual Massage Suite are typically higher than the previous options listed. 

Note:  Charm BodyWorks operates a Sensual Massage Suite in Dallas, Texas and is considered one of the premier providers in the country.  To learn more about Charm BodyWorks please click here.

Out-Call Providers

Many clients prefer Body Rub Massage providers who can come to their hotel room or residence..  There are certainly pros and cons to this approach.  Having a provider show up to your hotel or residence may be less discreet (especially if you have business colleagues staying in the same hotel or nosy neighbors).  It is also not always ideal for the Provider because it involves a higher-level of risk.  In addition, the logistical challenges of bringing equipment (massage table) and tools/supplies to the location may present some challenges.  As a result, there is normally an additional out-call fee assessed (on top of the Provider’s normal rates) for these types of services. 

Note:  Charm BodyWorks provides Out-Call Services in Dallas, Texas and is considered one of the premier providers in the country.  To learn more about Charm BodyWorks please click here.

How To Pick A Sensual Massage Provider?

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The best way to pick a Sensual Massage Provider
is to use the following process:

  1. Pick what type of provider (and associated price point) you prefer from the four options listed above.
  2. Visit the websites in that category to determine which of their Providers are most appealing to you.  This is typically based on their appearance, figure, description and services offered.
  3. Communicate with them (via text, email or phone) to discuss your specific expectations for the session.  Also, determine specifically what they do and do not offer as part of their sessions.
  4. Be sure and discuss specific pricing for your session.  This should be based on duration of the session and specific services offered.  If necessary, request a one-on-one consultation with them before scheduling the session.  This can typically be done over the phone or in person. 

How Much Does A
Sensual
Massage Cost?

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The price you will pay is based on the following factors:

  1. The type of provider
  2. Services offered
  3. Duration of session
  4. Location of session

You can find a wide range of price points depending on the type of establishment you choose to visit, the quality of the provider and what services you are expecting.  At Charm BodyWorks, we have tested several different pricing methods and the one we have found works the best for our clients is a flat hourly rate.  You are simply paying for the provider’s time.

This allows our clients to discuss the specifics of what services they would like to have included in their session (most of which are included at this flat hourly rate).  This simplifies things for our clients and avoids confusion over pricing for different services.

There are many places where you can find cheaper rates than our standard flat fee.  However, what you won’t find is a nicer facility or higher quality providers.  We cater to a specific clientele and these clients find our pricing to be quite reasonable for the quality of service we provide.  If you are looking for cheaper rates, you might want to try a Walk-In Massage Parlor or an Independent Provider who works out of their home.

Please Note:  At Charm BodyWorks, we only charge for our Provider’s time.  Any activities that occur during the massage are agreed to by consenting adulits.

Is A Sensual Massage Legal?

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We are not attorneys or a judicial or law enforcement agency.  Therefore, we cannot provide any legal advice when it comes to Sensual Massage.  The legality of Sensual Massage varies from region to region based on local regulations, cultures and customs.  There are some countries or cities where Sensual Massage is clearly legal.  These regions include Australia / New Zealand and Amsterdam.  If you are not in one of these regions it is possible that Sensual Massage may be considered illegal (or at least in the gray zone of the law). As a result, you should carefully consider these factors when considering a Sensual Massage.

Human Trafficking

In the United States, the primary focus is on human trafficking.  As a result, law enforcement resources are mostly dedicated to this pursuit.  This would include agencies or operators who are utilizing under-age or illegally imported providers.  In addition, this would also include any place where providers are being forced to provide services against their will.  You should consider these factors when choosing the provider you would want to do business with. 

Our View

At Charm BodyWorks,  our clients have carefully considered these risks.  That is one of the many reasons they have chosen to do business with us.  We are very discreet, highly professional and only offer mature, independent providers.  Our providers have chosen of their own free will to offer these types of services.  The services we offer provide a valuable service that has enhanced and sometimes even changed the life of our clients.  We are very proud of the services we provide and we hope you will consider a session with us for you and/or your partner.  

Please Note:  At Charm BodyWorks, we only charge for our Provider’s time.  Any activities that occur during the massage are agreed to by consenting adulits.

To learn more about our services or to schedule a session: